How to Handle Other People’s Expectation of You

“And now I will do what is best for me”

I just read this quote, and it triggered
something so deep inside of me.

I have someone very close in my life,
who is having a really hard time…

And it’s so hard to see.

I love this person so much.

And I see her struggling, suffering,
and not happy.

Because she is torn.

Between what she wants… the life that
she desires deep inside…

And what her family wants of her.

She is pressured, every day. Judged and
even mocked in a “loving” family way.

All her family expects of her, is to make
money, and live a “normal” life.

They don’t care what makes her happy,
or what she really wants…

All they care about is what THEY want
FOR her.

It’s so sad to see.

And what’s even harder for me…

Is to know –

That so many of you are in this reality.

You want one thing.

You want to do ________ with your life, and
whatever that may be, I’m here to tell you…


It’s AMAZING that you want to heal the
world, or travel, or quit your job, or not
go to school, or whatever!

I’m sure, so many people around you,
when you tell them what you really
want to do, or how you really feel…

They don’t understand.

They don’t hear you.

And you’re left feeling like, what’s the
point? Why tell them?

So you stop opening up to them, and stop
sharing what you really feel deep inside.

Leaving you alone, missing someone
to open up to, fully.

And I know, for so many of you, there are
but just a few people around you, who you
can really share your deepest heart’s truth,
and highest ambitions with.

But I am here.

We are here.

As your family.

As the community you’ve been looking for.

To remind you…

There are SO many people out there.

Living the exact life you want to live.


Because they stopped caring about what
other people think about them.

They stopped letting other people’s
expectations, rule how they live their life.

And they finally took the leap of faith, to
follow their own heart, no matter what
other people thought.

This is your chance.

In fact, every day is your chance.

To finally step into the life you’ve
wanted to live.

Let this be your message of inspiration
for today. And every day.

Don’t let other people tell you what is
most important to you.

Only you can know.

And only YOU, can take the actions needed,
to make sure you live the life you’re here to live.

Nobody else.

Your life isn’t going to change if you just
“wait” for it to.

No, it takes your trust, your faith, and your
ACTION to step into the life you know
you’re here to live.

“When you are born in a world you don’t fit in;
it’s because you were born to help create a new one”

So, what are you doing, to create the life
you really want deep inside?

Stop waiting.

The time has come, to stop sitting around,
hoping things change…

But to BE the CHANGE you wish to see in the world.

That starts with YOU.

Follow your heart. Follow your highest truth.

And finally do something, that you’ve
wanted to do for so long.

In doing so, you give everybody else permission,
to also follow their heart.

We’re here for you.

You’re not alone.

And remember, only together, is creating
the New Earth possible.

So, keep walking this path, do the work
to heal yourself, and together we’ll heal
the planet.

Join us in Peru.

And we’ll speak to again soon!

With so much love!

[To be continued..]

Here for you, more than you could even imagine,
Trinity de Guzman & The Ayahuasca Healings Family

PS –

One of the greatest ways to describe your
experience with Ayahuasca is:

“It will be nothing like what you expect,
but everything that you need”

A dear sister once said this to a guest
who registered for our retreat, and I
couldn’t have said it better myself.

My first 5-10 Ayahuasca ceremonies
were nothing like I expected…

But they were the most powerful,
life-changing thing I’ve ever experienced.

Many times I thought I’m never doing
this again, but I kept coming back…

Why? What happened to me?

I’ll share more about this in my next

Much love!!

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